Then the Lord God formed (hu)man from the dust of the
ground and breathed into the nostrils the breath of life, and the (hu)man
became a living being. Genesis 2:7
(NRSV)
So YHWH fashioned an earth creature out of the clay of the earth and blew
into its nostrils the breath of life.
Genesis 2:7 (Inclusive Bible)
One day the Eternal God scooped dirt out of the ground, sculpted it
into the shape we call human, breathed the breath that gives life
into the nostrils of the human, and the human became a living soul. Genesis 2:7 (The
Voice Translation)
God formed Human out of dirt from the ground and blew into its
nostrils the breath of life. The Human came alive—a living soul! (The Message).
Yesterday, we began a series called Love Makes a Family. In Genesis 2, after God forms, fashions,
breathes, and loves the first dust being into life (Dusty), God observes that
it isn’t good for a human to be alone. This
isn’t about dating or marriage.
This is about connection.
If you rewind just a bit to the first creation narrative in Genesis
1:1-2:3, at the very end, God says, “Let us make humans in our image” Genesis
1:26. God is in relationship (with both
the Spirit and Chaos) before the sky/seas/manatees/Creation
responds to God’s voice. God is in
collaboration and cooperation with the Spirit, sloshing chaos, and Christ from
the beginning. God loves committees and
group projects. I asked you in the
sermon to ponder some of the people who have left fingerprints upon your heart
in your life. In Genesis 2, God seeks a
partner, helper, or companion for the first human. While the dogs were great, while the birds
sang songs, while the armadillos had a great sense of humor, it wasn’t until
the first human gazed into the eyes of another featherless biped that the soul
felt full. We are meant/built for
relationships because that is a central and core characteristic of our Creator. Who are your partners who make your heart
sing? In fact, rewind and remember. Who were your pals in elementary school, high
school, when you started work, and right now?
This isn’t meant to be an exhaustive assignment. Scroll through the photo album that lives in
your memory. Are you still in contact
with any of them? Which friend have you
known the longest? This isn’t a
competition. Sometimes we meet a soul
friend late in life. Further, it isn’t
the length of the list that matters. As
a matter of fact, Dunbar’s number suggests we can maybe only have three to five
intimate friendships and that we can only really “know” up to 150 people ~
after that, they become acquaintances.
Or as Arthur Brooks says, you can have deal friends (where the
relationship is transactional) or real friends (where no one keeps a
spreadsheet over how many times you ask for a favor). Ponder your list. What are your thoughts? Can you have more than five close
friends? Do you feel like you really
know more than 150 people? Or do you
find that several people are more deal friends than real? If Love Makes a Family, then how can
our church encourage caring and belonging (two of our values) that is real for
each person? May God expand and
improvise our living out of these questions each day.

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